How to make friends in a new city

How to meet people in a new city

The best way to meet people in a new city is to join an expat community, take language classes, seek out sports or hobby clubs, or volunteer in your local community.

Expat communities are groups of people living abroad who share a common nationality or culture. They offer invaluable support, companionship, and help with language barriers, cultural differences, and homesickness. Look for communities like InterNations or dedicated Facebook groups in your new city. Typically, expat groups host social gatherings, coffee mornings, and discussion forums. It's an ideal opportunity to strike up casual friendships with people who understand the unique challenges of moving abroad.

Consider attending a local language school or a language exchange event. Language exchanges may be a more effective way to make friends than attending a formal class. Participants at language exchanges pair up or form small groups in an informal, social setting, taking turns to converse in each other's language. You'll meet both fellow expats and locals who share an interest in the same languages and cultures, creating easy conversation starters.

Top tip: don't wait to be invited! Take the initiative by inviting a new acquaintance from a class or club for coffee or a walk. It shows genuine interest and could spark an ongoing connection.

Just because you've moved to a new city or country doesn't mean you have to abandon your old hobbies. Be proactive by using platforms like Meetup.com to find local clubs aligned with your favourite non-work activities, such as hiking, cycling, football, film, board games, or photography. Regularly attending the same place allows acquaintances to bloom into friendships in a casual group setting.

Volunteering is a valuable way to meet people while contributing to your new community. By offering your time and skills to local charities, social projects, or community events, you'll naturally connect with others who share similar values. Whether it's cooking meals for the homeless, picking up litter, or maintaining community gardens, volunteering combines teamwork with a tangible sense of purpose.

How to make friends in a new city after graduating 

The best way to make friends in a new city after graduating is to network in your professional field, live in shared accommodation, or take up a new challenge. 

As a recent graduate focused on securing or maintaining a new job, it's essential to connect with people who share your ambitions. Expand your industry network by joining professional associations or attending after-work social events. Many companies have Employee Resource Groups (ERGs) for new or international staff — an ideal opportunity to meet colleagues outside your immediate team. Many ERGs organise around shared interests or identities, including religion, LGBTQIA+ communities, cultural background, or hobbies. 

Living in shared housing with other young professionals can make settling into a new city much easier. For those who prefer their own space, shared living may initially feel daunting. However, it naturally brings together people at similar stages of life, encouraging friendship and shared activities. Communal kitchens, living areas, or occasional group meals provide relaxed opportunities to get to know one another gradually. 

Why not keep your passion for learning alive by joining an adult education class, such as creative writing, photography, or pottery? Classes provide a weekly, low-pressure chance to socialise with people who share a common goal or interest, helping you practice the new language and understand cultural nuances more quickly.